Love is life and love is dead.

;)

It leads to a lot of terrible possibilities among friends lovers an loved ones. It makes you angry when you can’t get your message across and it’s misconstrued as you being hurtful or demanding. It makes you sad when you feel hurt or like you’ve been demanded to do something that very well should have been asked. Even if it wasn’t meant the way it was taken. It was still taken the way it was and if you say something wrong or hurtful even on accident. Be the good guy and recognize your fault and fix the problem. You can’t get caught up in little disputes and let them turn into big bursts of anger. You have to let go and give someone the benefit of the doubt. Ask them if that’s what they meant or how they meant it before you jump their case. Because that hurts a lot more than the original misconception. Everyone gets angry. Everyone says things they don’t mean. And everyone says things wrong. Sometimes people don’t act the way that they should. Or the way you want them to. You have to be understanding and in turn they will realize much sooner that what they’ve done is wrong. Telling someone they’re wrong automatically feels like an attack and what do we do when we get attacked? Protect ourselves and or fight back right? Justification for your wrongs only goes so far with out an apology. So here’s mine. Mom. Casey. I’m sorry.

P.S. that was the conversational piece I had prepared if you were willing to listen. It’s here so you weren’t willing. I love you. And next time I will do my best to keep my meanings clear and crazy soulless ginger emotions in check.